No one is out of place.
Our highest part is chose this path in life by which we entered the world. The individual spirit called the Soul of a Man/Woman knew what experiences it needed when it took upon itself the mystical substance called the Body.
We chose the vibrational enery which would dray to us the experience needed for our Highest Spiritual Growth. Our souls chose the appropriate date of brith, body, family, and circumstances to be born into.